About Leandra

About Leandra.

Leandra De Andrade is a relationship strategist who has helped thousands of women navigate breakups, pull-aways, and complex relationship dynamics — with clarity, not chaos.

Her approach is direct, evidence-based, and grounded in real behavioral psychology. No platitudes. No generic advice. Just strategy that works.

She is the founder of This Girl’s Got Game, author of This Girl’s Got an Ex, creator of the Game Plan service, and a Star Seller on Etsy with 21,000+ sales.

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Leandra De Andrade
How I See Relationships

Most Advice Trains Women to Overplay Their Hand.

Most relationship advice tells women to communicate more, explain better, and be endlessly understanding.

That’s like playing chess while announcing every move and hoping your opponent suddenly grows a conscience.

Relationships don’t reward effort. They respond to behaviour, timing, and consequence.

I don’t teach women how to talk louder. I teach them when silence speaks for them.

Who This Works For

This work is for women who are:

Intelligent, perceptive, emotionally generous — and strong everywhere except where it counts most.

They’re often the ones:

Doing the emotional heavy lifting
Explaining things that shouldn’t need explaining
Mistaking effort for leverage

They don’t need encouragement. They need a better position on the board.

The Origin

Why I Built This.

I didn’t create This Girl’s Got Game because I lacked confidence.

I created it because I realised confidence without strategy is like showing up overdressed to a negotiation — impressive, but ineffective.

During my own turning point, I noticed something uncomfortable: the more emotional effort I gave, the less seriously I was taken.

When I stopped reacting and started observing, the dynamic shifted.

That wasn’t luck. It was leverage.

The Philosophy

This Is About Knowing the Rules.

This work is not about manipulation. It’s about understanding that:

Men respect what doesn’t chase them
Value isn’t argued for
Attraction responds to restraint, not reassurance
You don’t need to prove your worth — you need to stop discounting it
What Experience Teaches

One pattern is constant.

After working with hundreds of women across breakups, reconciliation attempts, and emotionally unbalanced relationships, one pattern is constant:

Women aren’t losing because they’re too much. They’re losing because they’re too available without terms.

My role is to help women re-establish those terms — calmly, cleanly, and without emotional fallout.

The Standard

What It Means to Have Game.

Having game isn’t loud. It doesn’t explain itself. It doesn’t chase clarity from confusion.

A woman with game:

Knows when to step forward
Knows when to step back
Never negotiates her dignity in exchange for attention

She doesn’t rush the ending. She controls the pace.

If you’re tired of doing the emotional labour while someone else sets the terms, you’re in the right place.

Because in relationships — just like in life — the woman who moves strategically usually wins.

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